Post by wiccafairy2 on Feb 9, 2008 3:22:34 GMT -5
help from my friends
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ok i will try to make this short. My ex (who is good at "fish stories")found me a year ago(been 16 years). e-mailed me and we started talking(he has two kids and i do too). his wife and i also started to talk. i found out (from her)that he compeared her to me for the first 5-7 years of the marrage(married 13 years,she got preg.)and when he found me online, i was all he would talk about. she left him a month later said it was NOT because of me. they have had prob. for a awhile. when she left, he started saying him should have never left me. well, we talk for awhile a the feeling for still there. so I went to see him over the summer and we do have "something". he would kiss my hand and reach over to brush the hair from my face. when i was to leave we agreed to go (very) slow. told me he was falling in love with me again and it scares the hell out of him. and he would marry me.now since the summer...we still talk everyday. he says its not fair i live so far awayand if i move back ,find a good daddy(hinting at him) for my kids and laugh say "did i say that?" and he is glad (now)everything worked out this way because we seem closer.calls me honey and sunshine.that when he moves to FL and gets a house i am to move in... says things like you need to move back up here...seems he tend to talk more freely about his feelings late at nightwhen hes half asleep and sometimes will say i love you before hanging up(wont say that in the daytime). i did work up the money to go home....and he says things like...hurry up,get up here or all i need is me and you nake in bed and i can sleep better.i understand him better then anyone else... then once in a while he will say a girls name. like....he met someone name maria.. said he likes her....said its not fair but she reminds him of me and since my not there he would hang around her....so he said once that if he moves to FL... if she wanted to transfer(School) down there she could move in with him....or she was over the other night and fell asleep so he moved to the couch...but makes sure i know nothing big happened... i did do a tarot reading which said i will move back closer to home and someone from the past will come back into my life. there was true love in the reading......
SO GUYS AND GALS...what does all this mean??? is he hiding his feelings? is that why he says things late at night he wont say during the day?