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Post by Phoenix on Jul 16, 2006 3:46:07 GMT -5
How do you decide when to begin having "intimate relations" with someone? Everyone has different opinions. What may seem prudish to one, may seem promiscuous to another. Do you wait until it just feels right, or do you hold off until you feel a proper amount of time has passed?
Guys~ If a woman doesn't wait long enough, or waits too long, does that alter your opinion of her at all?
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Post by Marcus on Jul 16, 2006 8:16:18 GMT -5
I waited till it was right for both of us. If its a relationship i think love needs to be a soul factor.
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Post by Wolf on Jul 16, 2006 8:28:38 GMT -5
I don't really care if i sleep with someone on the first day or not. It's not special to me. It's just another need to be satisfied. If that makes sense..
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Post by stormcat on Jul 16, 2006 22:22:20 GMT -5
Why rush something that may have great potential!!! Then again if it's only a physical thing....do it and get it out of your system. I don't mean like 20 times! LOL >^..^<
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Post by Wolf on Jul 16, 2006 23:23:41 GMT -5
Lol!
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Post by heathenhammer on Jul 17, 2006 13:41:26 GMT -5
Heh, well, I'm with Wolf on this one. It depends on the situation but there's no requirement for me to wait. And since I'm a bit of a sex-monster well, I enjoy one-nighters or lust-at-1st-sight. In relationships where I've dated, if things are obvious that this one will be 'serious' in some way I tend to offer a month as a buffer. Believe it or not... chicks dig a guy who can choose to wait.
I just don't see it as necessary... by my post you can see it's a useful lure.
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Post by stormcat on Jul 17, 2006 21:36:08 GMT -5
Ahhh, sex without love, is like meat without salt, (makes it better) If you ever fall deeply in love you'll find out! Just cause you don't stay in love, it's not a failure it's a good lesson. >^..^<
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Post by fireraven1379 on Jul 17, 2006 21:58:39 GMT -5
Wren I've been in a similar situation. I was a virgin when I married my first husband but I think I should have listened to one of my good friends before doing that. I personally don't see the nessacity in a time limit except if a person isn't ready to accept the responsibilities that might occur from having sexual encounters then they should wait until the time is right. fireraven
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Post by theoccultchrist on Jul 17, 2006 23:07:31 GMT -5
In my case...
Haha...
not to make me or my Girlfriend out to be pre-miscuios or anything.
but We talked for along time..i met her on the internet as a matter of factly..she was/is going to the same college as me...
( ironicly we went to the same high school together too..but i never talked to her)
but anyway we'd talk online for hours at a time..and we'd meet up between classes on campus and just talk and flirt around.
then on our first 'date' we went back to her place and ended up getting pretty 'intimate' ...4 times that night to be exact...and we've offically been together ever since...its been almost a year since we've been dating.
it'll be exactly a year on the 21st of october..a week before samhain...so right now we've been dating about 9 months.
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Post by Levi Pheonix on Jan 5, 2007 21:26:48 GMT -5
I wait until we both feel that is is right to go forth and be "intimate".
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Post by Der Trommler on Jan 14, 2007 23:31:54 GMT -5
I waited till it was right for both of us. If its a relationship i think love needs to be a soul factor. As a lover, I tend to move quickly but I believe things are meant to happen. It is those things that which shape your own life. You can't change it or it was meant to be changed. Everytime, I've realized each person I had an intimate relationship with, brought something to teach me (no, not sexually...well, maybe a little on that but still.....lol)
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