sophie
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Post by sophie on May 23, 2006 1:42:14 GMT -5
hum, fun, another day, another reason i love him, sigh, i almost told him today. ALMOST!, then i chickened out, i just worry that i will lose him, and thats not a path i want to take.
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Post by stormcat on May 23, 2006 7:39:56 GMT -5
Try talking to other guys see how he acts. If it's a mutual feeling he won't like it at all. Watch for the signs!>^..^<
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sophie
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if your happy and you know it....clap your hands.
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Post by sophie on May 23, 2006 23:12:31 GMT -5
you lucky person, getting dumped is one of the worst feel ings, espesially when you still like the person who is dumping you.......
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Post by nevyn on May 24, 2006 6:55:02 GMT -5
hum, fun, another day, another reason i love him, sigh, i almost told him today. ALMOST!, then i chickened out, i just worry that i will lose him, and thats not a path i want to take. Take it from someone who's lived it. If you don't say anything, and you let it go, you might never get the nerve up. I loved a boy/man for about 6 years, I never told him because I was afraid of the same thing, we were best friends and I didn't want to lose him. A couple of years after we both went on with our lives and moved to different states, I found out that he was interested in me during that time and didn't want to lose my friendship. We both feel that if we took our (his literal, mine figurative) balls in our hands and said something, we might have been together, instead of longing for each other. By the time we figured it out, it was too late. You don't have to jump his bones and yell your feelings out, that's scary to do and scary to receive if he doesn't share your feelings, but you can say that your feelings have grown into something that you might want to explore. If he is like minded, he should welcome that you had the courage to speak. If he's not, you might want to emphasize that you DO still want the friendship, and that you won't make him uncomfortable with your feelings. It is possible to be friends and still have one be in love while one just loves. And you won't be living in emotional limbo anymore, which isn't a fun place to be! Good luck and Goddess Bless!
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Post by flowerfaeryqueen on May 24, 2006 14:57:45 GMT -5
cant you guys just have fun without making it all official? officializing some relationships can just ruin them. (long story )
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Post by Senbecc on May 24, 2006 16:49:18 GMT -5
In my life, I have had some of the absolute worst luck with women...It isn't even funny to tell the truth...When you have a girl friend who gets mad and knocks you cold with a cast iron skillet, then when you wake up they're trying to figure out what to do with the body and has a Gator named fluffy who tries to kill you every time it sees you...That's bad.
I won't go into all those things, the point is that we endure the bad times, that we may better appreciate the good...IMO.
*edited because I forgot that girl thought she'd killed me*
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Post by stormcat on May 24, 2006 17:23:51 GMT -5
Yeah, old lady here! Been there done that, ex-lovers on the most part don't make good friends. Oh people think it's over, but one is really ready to move on the other isn't. Then the jealousy starts and recriminations. Geez sorry you got boinked in the head Senbecc. Did you leave that one alone after that? Lucky she didn't take you to Reptile Gardens!!!LOL >^..^<
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Post by Senbecc on May 24, 2006 18:24:08 GMT -5
Yeah, old lady here! Been there done that, ex-lovers on the most part don't make good friends. Oh people think it's over, but one is really ready to move on the other isn't. Then the jealousy starts and recriminations. Geez sorry you got boinked in the head Senbecc. Did you leave that one alone after that? Lucky she didn't take you to Reptile Gardens!!!LOL >^..^< Naw this was down south, she lived in Luisianna...And no...I dated her for another two years after that
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Post by stormcat on May 24, 2006 18:29:42 GMT -5
It's the Heat and Humidity makes you crazy down here. Well some of us crazy! That's my defense in court anyway. >^..^<
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Post by Senbecc on May 24, 2006 18:47:29 GMT -5
It's the Heat and Humidity makes you crazy down here. Well some of us crazy! That's my defense in court anyway. >^..^< It is a unique type of heat we have the further south you go, the wetter it gets. Sometimes you can't even walk outta the house w/o breaking a sweat.
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sophie
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Post by sophie on May 25, 2006 1:52:24 GMT -5
ok, ok, so this is the deal. if i tell him and he doesn't feel the same way ( ), then i might lose him. and i dont nesercerilly want to make it 'official' i just want to know if he like me in the same way. Making it offical can mess things up a bit, i know that two. AH, maybe i'm just being a chicken........
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Post by Senbecc on May 25, 2006 1:57:23 GMT -5
ok, ok, so this is the deal. if i tell him and he doesn't feel the same way ( ), then i might lose him. and i dont nesercerilly want to make it 'official' i just want to know if he like me in the same way. Making it offical can mess things up a bit, i know that two. AH, maybe i'm just being a chicken........ Just make the decision for yourself, and follow it through. No one will blame you for either path you take here. Decide then make sure you follow it through to the end...No matter what the outcome. We're all rooting for you!
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sophie
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Post by sophie on May 25, 2006 5:56:27 GMT -5
he ehee thanks
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Post by flowerfaeryqueen on May 25, 2006 12:19:16 GMT -5
dont worry, it will work out. if you mess things up, @ least u knew.
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sophie
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if your happy and you know it....clap your hands.
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Post by sophie on May 26, 2006 19:38:19 GMT -5
yeah i guess..........okok on monday i will tell him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or try to anyway.......
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