Romance

[flowerfaeryqueen]

i was wondering what you people think about relationships, going out with people etc.. and can boys and girls be just friends, without it being wierd?? there is a thread similar to this one on the rants & peeves board, but i wanted a teenage perspective. there are some people i know, who HAVE to be seeing someone all the time, and its just like, why?

[amethest]

flowerfaeryqueen said:

i was wondering what you people think about relationships, going out with people etc.. and can boys and girls be just friends, without it being wierd?? there is a thread similar to this one on the rants & peeves board, but i wanted a teenage perspective. there are some people i know, who HAVE to be seeing someone all the time, and its just like, why?

of cause not i have loads of male friends if i was going out wiv all of them id be going out with about 50 guys at once

ok so it is a bit wierd between me and my best mate we were shall we say friends with benefits ;D but we have kind of stopped tht well almost heehee! i know what you mean about ppl who have to be with someone all the time one of my mates is like that! lol i think it is ok to be mates with guys i get on with guys better as a rule!

~amethest~

[Riyon]

flowerfaeryqueen said:

i was wondering what you people think about relationships, going out with people etc.. and can boys and girls be just friends, without it being wierd?? there is a thread similar to this one on the rants & peeves board, but i wanted a teenage perspective. there are some people i know, who HAVE to be seeing someone all the time, and its just like, why?

Well I'm still kinda a teenager.... O.o An older teen though. Heh. But I have always tried to be friends with guys. Right now I have more guy friends then I do girl friends. I like it that way just because I get along with guys better. But it's hard to find guys that will just be friends. Many of them end up wanting more. but not all. I have a few awesome guy friends that I trust with my life and it isn't weird for either of us. ^.^ A lot of people who always have to be seeing someone have a problem with being lonely. They think that if they aren't with anyone now they might not be with anyone later. it's psychological. Though everyone has different reasons. Some poepel just like getting to know different people and by going out with someone you get to know what you like and dislike.

[Marcus]

I have friends that go out to clubs and allways hook up with a different a girl every weekend. I just dont get into the whole going out with as many girls as possible. I have had a few girlfriends over the past few years and I love having a girlfriend. Someone who you can feel easy around and someone that makes you feel better about yourslef because you know that they like you and want to be with you for who you are.

[Wolf]

I'm more of a one night stand gal.. Only cos I don't like feeling weak and exposed. Love seems to do that. I have trust issues anyways.. Lol, I don't think I'm making much sense..

[ihrian]

ive always had friends that are guys...gets bad when u reali se u like the guy

[flowerfaeryqueen]

it has got really complicated with this guy i know. we were just friends, but everyone says that we look really good together, and should go out. and its really confusing coz we sort of are, but neither of us wants to make it really official, but everyone else has sort of decided it 4 us. but he said to me, that if everyone gossips like that and is really anoying, he cant do this.

[Wolf]

oh.. that sucks..

[Zowwiee ™]

DW Claire you know he likes you:) and you will be going out soon Its annoying when people intefere though.
I think it is possible for boys n girls to be friends Ive got loads of boy mates and I dont fancy one single one.

[ihrian]

ats what happened here, everyone keeps goin on and on about it, the first week its ok but it goes on for ever!!! think its been a year now!!! grrr, but i found a new friend this yr, at school, whos a guy, and i spend a bit of time wif him and his mates at lunch, and now ppl are saying we should go out, and they tease us and keep saying that we are getting married and shit...arghh, yr 8s...the losers they really are...lol, here they are anyway...BUT i dont like him and we arent goin out...foooooools hes too young anyways

[Wolf]

Do i know him?? lol

[ihrian]

lol no no, not this one

[flowerfaeryqueen]

oighrig said:

ats what happened here, everyone keeps goin on and on about it, the first week its ok but it goes on for ever!!! think its been a year now!!! grrr, but i found a new friend this yr, at school, whos a guy, and i spend a bit of time wif him and his mates at lunch, and now ppl are saying we should go out, and they tease us and keep saying that we are getting married and shit...arghh, yr 8s...the losers they really are...lol, here they are anyway...BUT i dont like him and we arent goin out...foooooools hes too young anyways

hehe yeah some of the yr 8s are really sad. they spend their time stalking boys @ my school

[Zowwiee ™]

Year 8s at my school think thier it just cause thier not yr 7s any more, theyre sad wannabees.
lol. But some of the exeptional ones are Ok...

[ihrian]

lol yr 8s are fools coz they are just out of primary school...and theyre short...lol yr 9s are fools coz they arent yr 8s anymore....yr 10s are the best tho coz we're in yr 10