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Post by wiccafairey on Feb 19, 2007 8:49:22 GMT -5
OK...my ex found me on classmates.com... left a message saying he has been thinking/looking for me and wants me to call him. left a number to call.
Now...i dont want or need to call him but a small part is like.....what the hell do you want.
what would you do?
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Post by Zowwiee ™ on Feb 19, 2007 15:33:34 GMT -5
I would call him just to see how hes doing and see what he wants.
He might just want to catch up with you.
Its up to you though good luck
xxx
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Post by Senbecc on Feb 19, 2007 16:44:06 GMT -5
OK...my ex found me on classmates.com... left a message saying he has been thinking/looking for me and wants me to call him. left a number to call. Now...i dont want or need to call him but a small part is like.....what the hell do you want. what would you do? Cha hate that crap?  |
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Post by Senbecc on Feb 19, 2007 16:47:41 GMT -5
OK...my ex found me on classmates.com... left a message saying he has been thinking/looking for me and wants me to call him. left a number to call. Now...i dont want or need to call him but a small part is like.....what the hell do you want. what would you do? Seriously...You have to do what you feel is right in these situations...If you feel its the right thing to do then by all means, though if he has "been looking for you" then who knows...May be a bad idea...Just one of those things you gotta play by ear and by your own judgments. |
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Post by KittyLane on Feb 19, 2007 17:34:50 GMT -5
i agree with senbecc, you should trust your own judgement. sit down and really think on how you feel about the situation, and him. if you want to proceed, i would suggest starting slow.
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Post by Senbecc on Feb 19, 2007 18:00:04 GMT -5
i agree with senbecc, you should trust your own judgement. sit down and really think on how you feel about the situation, and him. if you want to proceed, i would suggest starting slow. Very slow...  |
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Post by Der Trommler on Feb 19, 2007 18:13:13 GMT -5
Listen to the wisdom of the 2 Yoda's! Ok, seriously, yes, I agree with Senbecc & Kitty. It's up to you. An ex found me. We left on ok terms but it wasn't bad. No problem there. So, it has to be on your own judgement & always trust your gut feeling. For some reason, it has never steered me wrong nor any of the people I know yet!
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Post by tanath on Feb 19, 2007 20:33:30 GMT -5
you could always just contact him on that website or email. keep it all digital. it's safer because there's lessof a chance of him finding you through email if you don't want found. plus, you can cut it off at any point a lot easier than you can over the phone. after awhile if it seems innocent and harmless then you can call him or whatever.
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Post by Senbecc on Feb 20, 2007 0:12:40 GMT -5
you could always just contact him on that website or email. keep it all digital. it's safer because there's lessof a chance of him finding you through email if you don't want found. plus, you can cut it off at any point a lot easier than you can over the phone. after awhile if it seems innocent and harmless then you can call him or whatever. Good advice, I've heard way to many internet horror stories to ever tell anyone "hell yeah! Just go for it!" Iseriously doubt they all go bad. I've met women and friends in the past on the net and am still breathing, just always better to be careful, especially if your a woman meeting a man. |
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Post by tanath on Feb 20, 2007 0:21:39 GMT -5
i've met a couple people in person i met online. i always made sure it was in a reletively public place.
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Post by Senbecc on Feb 20, 2007 0:26:29 GMT -5
i've met a couple people in person i met online. i always made sure it was in a reletively public place. I once met this gorgouse red head on the net who lived here in town a while back...Like a year now I think. I saw her on cam, and she saw me, what could go wrong? Anyway it was all good until I met her and I found out she didn't have teeth...Now I'm really not making fun, just feel that it was information I could have used...Ya know? |
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Post by tanath on Feb 20, 2007 1:26:15 GMT -5
yeah, that's a little startling without warning. things like that should be covered before you meet.
NO teeth, or just MISSING teeth?
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Post by Senbecc on Feb 20, 2007 2:04:12 GMT -5
yeah, that's a little startling without warning. things like that should be covered before you meet. NO teeth, or just MISSING teeth? Im pretty sure the top row were all gone...  I ah, didn't stick around to check... |
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Post by tanath on Feb 20, 2007 2:11:06 GMT -5
how fast did you leave?
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Post by Senbecc on Feb 20, 2007 2:29:36 GMT -5
Well, I didn't want to hurt her feelings, so I stuck around to chat for a bit...However that was no longer an issue for me when she started shaking her but and boobs with her kid standing right there...So it took me every bit of 5 minutes to leave  |
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