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the EX
Apr 10, 2007 13:47:31 GMT -5
Post by wiccafairey on Apr 10, 2007 13:47:31 GMT -5
Ok if you have been following this story you know what has been going on....(if not see need advice and small world)... My ex still havs feeling for me. always has. always will. told me every girl he was with after me he compareded to me. or as he put it.. you killed it for everyone eles. THAT is part of the reason he looked me up to say sorry and to see if I was ok and happy. Then his wife left and i myself have been thinking about leaving my bf for a year now. it just so wierd.. things happen for a reason right? we talk every day. and I told him he needs to work on the things in hand and work on himself...after all it was a 13 year marrage. I will be there to support him and lend an ear then needed...im not going the rebound route....and he agreed with me.
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the EX
Apr 10, 2007 14:20:45 GMT -5
Post by KittyLane on Apr 10, 2007 14:20:45 GMT -5
hmm well if it feels right for you then i say go for it.
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the EX
Apr 12, 2007 1:57:25 GMT -5
Post by tanath on Apr 12, 2007 1:57:25 GMT -5
if it seems like it's the right time for it to work out then yeah, go fo it. wait until you're both sure it's not rebound and then give it a try.
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the EX
Apr 12, 2007 6:55:28 GMT -5
Post by wiccafairey on Apr 12, 2007 6:55:28 GMT -5
that is what i told him....i am NOT a rebound OR a one nighter.....he agreed with me. wants to be friends see what happeneds..if i leave than is... he said not to leave because of him but because im not happy. which im not
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the EX
Apr 12, 2007 10:22:52 GMT -5
Post by Senbecc on Apr 12, 2007 10:22:52 GMT -5
if it seems like it's the right time for it to work out then yeah, go fo it. wait until you're both sure it's not rebound and then give it a try.Words of absolute wisdom...
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the EX
Apr 12, 2007 12:08:28 GMT -5
Post by wiccafairey on Apr 12, 2007 12:08:28 GMT -5
yea---his mom is worry his is going to sweet talk me into bed....his mom was like..your vonable right now just thing before you do....LOL...sorry not going there.
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the EX
Apr 12, 2007 14:00:23 GMT -5
Post by tanath on Apr 12, 2007 14:00:23 GMT -5
if it seems like it's the right time for it to work out then yeah, go fo it. wait until you're both sure it's not rebound and then give it a try.Words of absolute wisdom... why thank you
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the EX
Apr 12, 2007 15:36:23 GMT -5
Post by wiccafairey on Apr 12, 2007 15:36:23 GMT -5
i thank you all for talk to me about this... m mind cant handle it alone.
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the EX
Apr 12, 2007 20:05:17 GMT -5
Post by tanath on Apr 12, 2007 20:05:17 GMT -5
what else are friends for?
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the EX
Apr 12, 2007 22:17:18 GMT -5
Post by Der Trommler on Apr 12, 2007 22:17:18 GMT -5
First, don't overanalyze everything, second: take your time....Like the wise Tanath had put it 'if it seems like it's the right time for it to work out then yeah, go fo it. wait until you're both sure it's not rebound and then give it a try'
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the EX
Apr 13, 2007 6:05:08 GMT -5
Post by wiccafairey on Apr 13, 2007 6:05:08 GMT -5
will do
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the EX
Apr 13, 2007 6:09:34 GMT -5
Post by Senbecc on Apr 13, 2007 6:09:34 GMT -5
Sweet Wiccafairy, Only you can decide what is right here...I would suggest you look back at the old relationship (I mean of course he has learned things by by now, but still), was it a happy one? Is it a memory you'd like to revisit? This sounds like a time to resort to deep thought I guess is what I am saying.
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the EX
Apr 13, 2007 10:44:31 GMT -5
Post by wiccafairey on Apr 13, 2007 10:44:31 GMT -5
it was a great time with both of us.... he told me the reason he left was because it got too sereus too fast...didnt know how to deal with the feeling he had/has. so he left.. was worried he didnt know what was out there.we were 19...said the other night if he knew then what he knows now he would have never left...
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the EX
Apr 13, 2007 19:32:34 GMT -5
Post by Senbecc on Apr 13, 2007 19:32:34 GMT -5
it was a great time with both of us.... he told me the reason he left was because it got too sereus too fast...didnt know how to deal with the feeling he had/has. so he left.. was worried he didnt know what was out there.we were 19...said the other night if he knew then what he knows now he would have never left... Funny how the world works sometimes isn't it? Been here done this lol...Not the getting back together part but the going to fast, it sounds to me like something you should go for. Of course much more slowly this time.
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the EX
Apr 14, 2007 1:56:52 GMT -5
Post by wiccafairey on Apr 14, 2007 1:56:52 GMT -5
it just sounds weird then things are almost the same in our lifes...how do you chose between the man you have been with for 8 years ,farther of your kids who you think you still love OR the man who you will ALWAYS love
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